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Do Our Dogs Love Us Unconditionally?

by shibashake 31 Comments

Many people say ~ Dogs love us unconditionally.

However, others argue that dogs are not capable of love, much less unconditional love. What seems like love to us is only behavioral conditioning. Is this true? What does unconditional dog love mean?

When people say that dogs love us unconditionally, they are referring to how some dogs continue to seek human company, attention, and affection, even after being hit, beaten, neglected, and abused by us.

This does not mean that dogs love all people unconditionally, but that they have the capacity to forgive, forget, and love us again even after going through some tough times.

This does not mean that dogs do not feel pain or do not suffer from pain, nor does it mean that they are unaffected by abuse. It only means that they have the ability to bounce back if we give them the chance and help them to do so.

Three dogs and man hanging out (group shot).
Do Our Dogs Love Us Unconditionally?

Do Our Dogs Truly Love Us?

However, is this an indication of real love or is this merely conditioning? Do our dogs lie next to us, lick us, and show us doggy affection because they have learned that it will get them food and other resources? Or do they truly love and enjoy our company?

Some researchers argue that it is all conditioning, and that …

“If we moved our dogs to our neighbor’s house and that neighbor gave the dogs as much as we gave them and in the same motivational forms, I believe our dogs would adapt to the new life and would become as loyal to the neighbor as they were to us.”
~~[Fred Metzger, State College veterinarian]

Husky Puppy doing a handshake.
Do our dogs truly love us, or is it just conditioning?

However, other scientists disagree. In fact, recent MRI data (dog brain scans) from scientists at Emory University in Atlanta, Georgia show that dogs do experience feelings of love and affection. In particular, the MRI data is different when a dog is given treats by a stranger and by someone that they have a strong bond with.

What do you think? Do our dogs truly love us or is it just conditioning?

Man sitting with his two Huskies, one on each side.
Do our dogs truly love us? What do you think?

What Is Love?

There are as many forms of love as there are moments in time.
~~[Jane Austen]

Whether our dog loves us, will greatly depend on what love means to us.

I have a close relative, whom I will call Aunt Marie.

Aunt Marie is someone who is very interested in measuring love. She keeps track of whether her children, as well as nephews and nieces call her on her Birthdays and other special occasions. Do they send her cards? Do they call? Do they call on the day itself, or do they forget and call too early or too late? Do they call other aunts and uncles? What about gifts?

As far as I can tell, Aunt Marie uses these behaviors and others to calculate who loves her, whether they love her more than another aunt or uncle, and whether it is truly love for her or something else, e.g. love of her money.

Not surprisingly, Aunt Marie is not a very happy person.

Very frequently, she comes up with reasons as to why people do not love her. “They are only calling me or sending me cards and presents out of duty”, she declares. “They are only doing this to get my money.”

Cute Husky dog wrapped all around a man's arm during a scratch session.
What is love to you? Does it have to be perfect and free from other motivations?

What is love to you? Is it blind loyalty? Does it have to be perfect and free from other motivations?

We can never truly know what another person or animal is thinking. Like Aunt Marie, we can decide to continually measure love and deny the love of others, or we can enjoy the moment and love others back.

Love is not something that is easily defined and therefore, it is not something that can be measured. However, it is there, and it is powerful, and it is something to be enjoyed. Like us, it may not be perfect, but perfection is not necessary.

Man getting licks and affection from a Siberian Husky and Shiba Inu (close-up). Great bonding picture.
Like us, love may not be perfect, but perfection is not necessary.

De-Humanizing Our Dogs

Some people insist that dogs are incapable of love, because they are animals. These statements always include some dire warning about how attributing these “human feelings” to our dogs is dangerous because it is humanizing our dogs, and this will lead to bad behavior and an out of control dog.

I fail to see how believing that our dogs are capable of love is detrimental to anyone. Does that mean that their love is exactly like ours, probably not. However, why should that matter? Why is dog love unworthy of the name?

Black and white Husky on her back with a big grin. Gray Husky smelling her rear.
I fail to see how believing that our dogs are capable of love is detrimental to anyone.

In the dog training world, there is a fair amount of discussion around humanizing dogs, but very little around de-humanizing dogs. I suppose because dogs are clearly not human, we assume that de-humanizing them is only right and natural.

However, dehumanization is much much more than just an attribution of species.

Dehumanization or dehumanisation describes the denial of “humanness” to others …

It is conceptually related to infrahumanization,[4] deligitimization,[5] moral exclusion[6] and objectification.[7] Dehumanization occurs across several domains, is facilitated by status, power, and social connection, and results in behaviors like exclusion, violence, and support for violence against others.
~~[Wikipedia]

dehumanization – the act of degrading people with respect to their best qualities;

dehumanisation, degradation, debasement – changing to a lower state (a less respected state)
~~[The Free Dictionary]

By dehumanizing our dogs, they automatically become second class citizens, therefore, it becomes more acceptable for us to hit them, shock them, or choke them into submission.

Indeed, we do not want to overly humanize our dogs, because that may lead to mis-communication and misinterpretation of their behaviors, which will hinder the creation of a positive and healthy dog-human bond.

Similarly, we do not want to overly dehumanize our dogs, because that may lead to the same detrimental results.

Training and bonding with our dog does not just involve our dog, it involves us as well, in very big part. Helping my dog improve his behavior, also helped me improve my own behavior. I learned to better control my temper, to show more empathy, to be more patient, to let things go, and to enjoy the moment.

De-humanizing our dogs demands everything from our dog, and nothing from us. It is the opposite of love.

Man scratching Husky on the top of her head. Husky lying next to a toy bone and red Kong toy.
Helping my dog improve his behavior, also helped me improve my own behavior.

Do My Dogs Really Love Me Unconditionally?

I don’t know.

I think the more important question to ask myself is whether I love my dogs. And the answer to that is absolutely.

Do I love all my dogs equally and in exactly the same way? No. But that does not mean that I do not love each of them very much.

Similarly, I do not require my dogs to love me and only me. My dogs enjoy being with friends and neighbors who give them affection and treats, but that does not cheapen their love for me.

I love my dogs, I want to keep them happy, safe, and healthy. When they are happy, safe, and healthy, that makes me very happy too.

I love spending time with my dogs, and I love it when they come over to be with me, whatever their motivations.

That is more than enough for me.

Close-up of Siberian Husky puppy sitting with man (hand on her chest).
Do My Dogs Really Love Me Unconditionally?

Comments

  1. Peter Vaughan Williams says

    August 13, 2017 at 1:07 pm

    Dogs are like kids. If they have a bad owner or a stupid owner that may turn out bad unfortunately. Especially dogs that have had several poor homes!
    Almost all”bad” dogs have had incorrect experiences with humans. I have had many dogs over the years yet only found one who was really unhinged – so they do exist.
    I am now 73 and well retired and I live alone on my small private estate n Morocco – alone 24/7 – that us with my Welsh Border Collie Aidie. Aidie is the most amazing creature I have encountered in my life and I attribute this to our constant and endless inter-activity and my treating him as I would a young child. It would take far too much space for me to list all the amazing attributes of my dog – who is now 7 years old, and I would say that canine love in my opinion is very real, valid, and infinitely more stable and forgiving than human love. If your dog doesn’t love you it can only be your fault! and you are obviously unworthy in one or more respects. Of course there are many different types of personalities in both people and in canines, but on average the relationships are workable and beneficial for both parties. In exceptional cases (like mine), the relationship is a very beautiful and wondrous thing to behold. So…
    IF YOU REALLY WANT TO BE LOVED – GET AN (INTELLIGENT) DOG!!!

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    • K WATKINS says

      February 8, 2021 at 4:46 pm

      All I kow is that I lost my rescue 12 year old black lab on September 10, 2019. He had advanced hemangiocarcinoma. We went in for shots and tags, and came out with terminal cancer. We got him when he was 6. So we only had a short time with him. He was a terribly misbehaved and confused pup. He drooled eveywhere. Stood and stared at the wall for hours on end. He was so weird sometimes. I think he was abused before he came to us. Stole food. Ran for the hills when he slipped out the gate. Had no interest or ability to understand playing ball or whatever. He chewed through door trim when left alone too long. He shed mountains of hair. But . . . the more people hated on him, the more I loved him. He crawled all over me when it rained or thundered. But I got sick for about a year, and was in and out of the hospital. When I fnally came home for good, he led me everywhere. He never left my side again. Couldn’t even go to the bathroom without that greying snout poking through the door. We had two last terribly hard weeks together. Then, late one night he began to pant and crawl on me, and I knew it was time to go. He refused to go inside the vet’s office and I fell and broke two ribs trying to push him in. The vet looked at x-rays and the cancer was pressing into his lung. I had to decide to take him home and have one more day, or let him go. I’ll never take a few precious hours away from another dog again. I regret my decision every day. I killed my dog before he was ready to go. Every second counts. And yes, it is unconditional love. I hope and pray every day I will see him again. Love them with all your heart and soul. They are one of God’s greatest gifts. And we really don’t deserve them. Yet there they are.

  2. Allison says

    May 30, 2017 at 1:37 am

    Recently discovered your blog and this is a great read. Before the word love was invented I wonder how we humans described the feeling love and how they knew that feeling was love. hmmm.

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  3. Bov says

    December 24, 2016 at 5:31 pm

    24-7 with my dog.he is a person in a dog suut.he anticipated my every move up at 7 am not my choice.10am dog park.i can rough hoyse with hin.never gets tired.

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  4. Monica C. Webster says

    November 16, 2016 at 4:25 pm

    Enjoyed reading your thoughts in this article. We have three gorgeous canine kids – two Tibetan Spaniels and a Pyrenean Mastiff. I do believe that love is not something that can (or should) be measured solely in human terms and conditions; what hubris to believe that only we feel emotion. Animals probably do not quantify or qualify things the same way, but that does not make their sentiments any less real or valid.

    I can really relate to your comments about “Aunt Marie.” You’ve pretty much described my mom, lol.

    Thanks so much for a great and thought-provoking read.

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  5. Calvin says

    October 23, 2016 at 8:09 am

    I wonder if this is related to the fact that we have domesticated dogs for thousand years thus it’s written to our and their DNA – both of us are two mammals with the closest proximity to “mutual companion”

    I remember back then I lost my dog (a dachshund) , and only to find her later in a neighbour’s home far from my home, when saw me, she greeted me and waggled her tail, not barking! I was very surprised because she still remembered me. I didn’t take her back home because she seemed happier in her new home – my dad is a dog breeder and he always caged his dogs. I always tried to find time to walk them, but it’s hard when there are 3-4 big dogs to give attention to.

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  6. Lexie says

    April 25, 2016 at 9:26 pm

    Hi Shibashake,

    I’m in some serious need for advice. I’ve wanted a husky ever since I was a little girl (my cousins and I played “dogs” and I always pretended I was one), and now I’m about to graduate and will finally be able to get my own dog. I’ve had dogs before (rat terrier/schipperke(spelling?), a chow/lab, & spent a lot of time w/Australian shepherds, pitbulls, and my good friend has a husky), so this isn’t my first rodeo. Like I said before, I’ve spent a lot of time with the husky up until he was a year and then I moved down to school so I haven’t been around him since. I want one sooooo badly, but I do not EVER want to be at a place where I think I couldn’t handle one of my own. I have heard equal sides that say they’re the best dog breed to have and then some who have literally stated that they thought the dog would break their spirit. It is my biggest fear to have a husky and it not obey me. I know they require extensive training and I know, as with any dog, you need to show them who the alpha is, but I’m nervous. I guess my question to you is: how do you know if you’re making the right choice? I’ve researched them for hours on end and I think I would be an excellent owner, but then think about the fact that maybe I will have bad luck and get the most mischievous one in existence. HELP!

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  7. Elizabeth says

    November 2, 2015 at 1:55 pm

    Just wanted to add to the chorus of ‘thank yous’ for this blog! I just adopted a two year old Sheltie/Spitz mix I named Vivaldi, and while he’s actually a pretty easy dog, the adoption was finalized at a tough time and I have found myself a bit overwhelmed as a first-time dog owner trying to teach him commands and better leash manners. But I remembered your blog from stumbling across it once, and it’s going to be a huuuge help to me and my new pup.

    One question– AFAIK you don’t have a cat, but just in case you’ve heard a thing or two… Do you have any tips on cat-dog relationships? The introduction actually went quite well, but my cat is still fairly timid and sometimes spooks and runs, igniting the chase instinct for the do. (He can’t chase far, since I have him leashed when they are in the same room, but it still scares the cat, and me a little too!) How do I prevent chasing? I believe I’m supposed to reward him when he is calm around the cat, but I’m finding it tricky to tell when I should be rewarding him, and how to tell him “no” when he does move to chase, as it happens so fast I can’t see it coming. If you have any thoughts on this, I would very much appreciate it if you shared.

    Thank you again for this awesome resource!

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  8. kymber says

    September 4, 2015 at 12:08 pm

    i just want to thank you for all of your incredible knowledge and for sharing it here for the world to learn from. my husband and i have been pouring through your site and have learned many great things! and that’s a good thing as we just got an 11-week old husky/collie. all of your tips are working on her and after reading your site, we feel that we can understand her better and better take care of her. she has been here for less than a week, already alerts us to when she has to go out, we feed her twice a day with many treats for being a good girl and following commands. we take her out for 20 minutes at a time, 4 times a day and she is really enjoying this routine. she comes in after her play time and flops out until she wakes and gets her next playtime.

    we live on a homestead, grow some of our own food, hunt and fish. she will make an excellent guard dog and we will make excellent parents because of all of the information that you have shared.

    i put up a post today on our blog – http://www.framboisemanor.blogspot.com – and shared pictures of her. i also linked to your blog in my post and i hope that you are ok with that.

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    • shibashake says

      September 4, 2015 at 5:06 pm

      She is absolutely gorgeous! Her blue eyes are absolutely striking against her darker coat. And her expression during stick chewing is priceless. 😀

      Big big hugs to katijya. Also, your jambaloney story is awesome!

  9. Anthony D says

    June 11, 2015 at 4:25 am

    Hello! Read a good amount of your Shiba articles and they are very informative! I am getting my very first Shiba soon and he/she should be ready to go in October. Still debating if we want a female or male. Can you tell me about the differences between male and female Shibas? Been researching and reading about the breed for a good week now and can’t wait till October lol. A bit nervous too because of how stubborn they can be but I think I’m up for it. Anyways, thx for having this blog cause I know I’ll be here regularly!

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    • shibashake says

      June 12, 2015 at 4:02 pm

      Congratulations on your upcoming puppy! It is always very hectic for me when I get a new puppy, but also a lot of fun. Make sure to have a good camera ready. 😀

      I have visited with a couple of Shiba breeders since getting Sephy, and the general picture that I get from them is that the males tend to be a bit more affectionate and social. Also a bit more of a homebody. Strangely, my Husky breeder also tells me the same thing about her Huskies. I have two Husky girls from her though, and they are both very affectionate, so I always wonder how a male Husky would be like. Of course there will be a lot of variability dog to dog as well.

      However, I have never lived with a female Shiba or a male Husky, so I don’t have any first hand experience with comparing them.

      Here are some great threads from the Shiba Inu forum on male vs. female Shibas-
      http://www.shibainuforum.org/forum/discussion/8297/female-shiba-vs-male-shiba/p1
      http://www.shibainuforum.org/forum/discussion/6549/x&page=1#Item_16
      http://www.shibainuforum.org/forum/discussion/2856/males-vs-females-personalities/p1

  10. Francesca says

    June 4, 2015 at 9:44 pm

    I have a poodle chihuahua rescue
    Who can be really gross if you get grossed out don’t read the post.
    After my 13 year old poodle passed away I wanted another
    So my husband one day happened to find a curly 2 month pup on the side of the road. He called it a mexican poodle lol cause of the chihuahua in him.
    His name is Hilario and he is obsessed with me. The first weird thing he did was when I made a potty stop on a hiking trail. He was not even a year yet and off leash, I squatted down to pee and didn’t notice him rolling himself in the shower until he was covered.
    I said a stern no but didn’t make a deal out of it I thought cause he was a pup and I was his new mom he was trying to smell like me to endear himself more to me.
    However now at 2 years old he still likes scenting himself. He rolls on dirty underwear he has eaten the crotch out and swallowed it! I remember waking up at night and he was sound asleep wearing my underwear like a mask the crotch part tight over his nose. Now dirty laundry is kept out of reach.
    He has gotten better now that he’s not a pup but I still have to be careful with used pads or he will proudly rub war paint on his face and I still keep undies out of reach.
    When we take a walk in the woods and I need a potty break I have to tie him and walk away with him leashed or he will run back to drink and roll.
    My dog is castrated it was done when he was still a few months.
    He does obey me and is an angel with kids.
    He does have separation anxiety in certain situations
    He is social and friendly with dogs
    I try giving him a variety of toys but nothing interests him.
    Food does not motivate him he is not a big eater, only pats and being held.
    I tried putting boiled chicken skin in the hole of a squeaky bone. Even though he likes chicken skin he did not put any effort in getting the treat he dint whine he just didn’t care. He preferred sitting next to me then trying to get the treat on the floor, even though I was right there in the same room.
    It’s not much of a problem anymore I just close the bathroom and don’t let dirty
    Laundry on the floor. Mostly I want to know how weird is my dog being and should I instill more discipline. Should I consider this a quirk or an obedience problem?
    It also bothers me the only way I can entertain him is walks and ear scratches. When it rains he gets bored and does not enjoy fetch or chew toys.

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  11. Dom says

    May 30, 2015 at 6:21 pm

    Hello there Shibashake! I’ve been reading up on your website for a few weeks now to prepare for my first Shiba Inu(which I will be getting June 12). And I was wondering if there were any tips/articles you could give to me for training, caring, exercising, and etc. Cheers!

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    • shibashake says

      May 31, 2015 at 11:02 pm

      Congratulations on your upcoming Shiba puppy!

      Structure and consistency were very important for Sephy during puppyhood. I set up a fixed routine and a consistent set of rules. He was also extremely mouthy, so doing bite inhibition exercises and no-bite conditioning exercises were very useful.
      How I trained my puppy.
      How I deal with puppy biting.
      How I set up rules and structure.

      Puppy socialization was also an important part of Sephy’s early life. We did a couple of SIRIUS puppy classes with him, and then some additional classes at our local SPCA. With the Sibes we also did supervised puppy playgroups at a good local doggy daycare center. I made sure that the classes and daycare check for puppy vaccination records to ensure that all attending puppies are in good health and are on a proper vaccination schedule. I also check for quality and experience of the people in-charge.
      ASPCA article on puppy socialization.
      More on dog socialization.

      Sephy does best with resource control training methods. He did not respond well to physical or aversive based training. I also did desensitization exercises to get him used to grooming and touching.
      http://shibashake.com/dog/shiba-inu-training-secrets

      I write more about my experiences with Sephy here.

      Most of all, remember to have fun, enjoy the puppy smell, and take lots of pictures!! 😀

  12. Paul says

    March 25, 2015 at 11:45 am

    What books do you recommend for reading about training a shiba inu??

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    • shibashake says

      March 26, 2015 at 4:17 pm

      With Sephy I went to breed specific websites and forums for Shiba Inu specific information.

      The books that I read were more on general dog behavior and dog training. I read books by Ian Dunbar, Patricia McConnell, Karen Pryor, and Suzanne Clothier. Suzanne Clothier’s book, “Bones Would Rain from the Sky”, is probably more on dog relationships, but it really changed my way of thinking. Most of these people also have websites, so I would check our their website articles first and see if you like their style.

      More on where I get information on dog behavior and dog training.

  13. Danny T says

    March 6, 2015 at 2:23 pm

    Beautiful dogs, great read.

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  14. Shane says

    February 19, 2015 at 1:29 am

    I feel like dogs do know who we are individually and love us. My Akita will start crying when he heres me or my mom on the answering machine, and no one else. He knows our voice and he shows that he misses us by doing so. He knows the rest of my family well but since he grew up around my mom and I he shows the extra emotion.

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    • Shane says

      February 19, 2015 at 1:30 am

      And I’m saying he doesn’t cry when anyone else calls, just us since we raised him.

  15. jen jones says

    January 20, 2015 at 3:32 pm

    I have a 4 year old 1/2 lab and 1/2 coon hound. Last summer he was attacked by an American wolf dog. Our dog was tied up and in our yard and the other dog got loose and attacked him. We didn’t know if he was going to make it or not. But he finally came out of it. Well ever since then he as became for aggressive and more protective of all of us. We he gets out sometimes, which that happens with every dog, he runs and runs and we have a hard time catching him but he also either finds another dog or a cat and attackes them. He has been in 3 dog fights this summer and 1 cat fight which was just the other night. thank god he hasn’t killed one yet or done bad harm to the other dogs. Why might this be? and how can I correct it. Would a shock collar help. We are thinking about getting rid of him, putting him down, cuz we don’t want him to attack our boys. that hasn’t happened yet. we have another dog, 1/2 lab and 1/2 husky. they have had some times faught but nothing major. can you please help me. I don’t want to get rid of our dog or put him to sleep.

    thanks

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    • shibashake says

      January 21, 2015 at 12:01 am

      Dogs are cursorial predators, meaning that they chase down their prey. … Just about any small mammal can trigger a predatory response in dogs: squirrels, rabbits, mice, rats, groundhogs, racoons, ground squirrels, skunks, porcupines and, unfortunately, cats. Dogs who live peacefully with cats sometimes still prey on unfamiliar cats, particularly if the cats are outdoors and moving.
      ~~[ASPCA]

      Many coonhounds do have a strong prey drive. If you have cats or other small animals a coonhound may not be the dog for you unless it has been raised with them.
      …
      Coonhounds make excellent family pets. They are good with children of all ages and usually take all the petting that is dished out. However, no dog should ever be left unsupervised with children; children don’t always know how to treat a dog and every dog does have its limit.
      ~~[Rescue Every Dog]

      All dogs have prey drive. I have two Huskies who have high prey drive so I make sure to give them structured daily exercise, I supervise them well, and I make sure that my backyard is properly fenced and secure so that there are no dog escapes. As you have observed, chaining or tethering a dog unsupervised and for an extended period of time is not a good option, because that does not keep other dogs or animals from entering his space, or attacking him. In such cases, he cannot run away or properly defend himself because he is tethered.

      More on how I keep my dog from escaping.

      My dogs also need rules and supervision when interacting with other dogs. I desensitize my dog to other dogs in a structured and controlled setting, and I protect him from rude dogs and dogs that I know he will not get along with.

      A dog’s first fight is always the one you want to avoid. Why? A bad fight can make a huge impression on your dog and cause him to have a shorter fuse the next time a dog-dog conflict comes up. Dogs learn from their bad experiences just like we do, so it’s best to protect them from conflict. ~~[BadRap]

      More on dog-to-dog tolerance.
      He Just Wants to Say Hi.
      How I help my dogs get along.

      I would consult with a good professional trainer first before doing anything drastic.
      https://www.aspca.org/pet-care/virtual-pet-behaviorist/finding-professional-help
      https://apdt.com/pet-owners/choosing-a-trainer/

      If I am no longer able to keep my dog, I would do everything in my power to find him a good home. Is your dog adopted from a shelter or rescue? Can they help in training and rehoming him? Is there a local SPCA, Humane Society, or rescue group that can help?

    • Francesca says

      June 4, 2015 at 9:52 pm

      Don’t put him down if you can’t handle his behavior find someone who will use him as a hunting dog

  16. vickie says

    January 3, 2015 at 11:07 pm

    I adopted my 3year old Shiba 3weeks ago.Before adopting him he snarled and went after my hand twice.I have completely fallen in love with Koji.Tonight he was sleepinh next to me on the couch.He unexpectantly turned mean and bit me in the eye .He also go a hold of my hand and bit it so bad I can hardly use it. I hate to take him back to the shelter but I csn not afford to be hurt like this again.What do I do?

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    • shibashake says

      January 5, 2015 at 1:21 pm

      Dog behavior is very context dependent, so each dog and situation are different. This is why in cases of aggression, it is best and safest to get help from a good professional trainer. During my Shiba Inu’s difficult period I got help from several trainers who could observe and evaluate him within the context of his regular environment and routine. They helped me to come up with a safe plan for retraining, and also helped me with timing, energy, technique, and more.
      https://www.aspca.org/pet-care/virtual-pet-behaviorist/finding-professional-help
      https://apdt.com/pet-owners/choosing-a-trainer/

      In addition, dogs may instinctually bite when startled awake from a deep sleep. Dogs are more vulnerable while asleep, therefore Nature has provided them with protective mechanisms to keep themselves safe. My Shiba is especially sensitive about his space and safety, so he has a stronger reaction than my other dogs. One time, my Shiba was sleeping deeply by my feet and I reached down to stroke him. He was startled awake and did an air snap. Now, I always make sure to make some noise and wait until he is awake before I interact with him. I believe this is where the common saying “Let sleeping dogs lie”, comes from. 🙂

      When I want to change my dog’s behavior, I start by first identifying the source of his behavior. There is usually a trigger or a reason for my dog’s behavior, and to properly change it, I need to first understand where it comes from.
      More on how I change my dog’s behavior.
      More on how dog’s learn.

      My Shiba does best when he has a fixed routine, a consistent set of rules, consistency in training, exercise, and proper supervision.
      More on the Shiba Inu personality.
      More on my experiences with my Shiba Inu, Sephy.

      I had some difficult times with Sephy, but I also love him very much. During our difficult time, I visited with several professional trainers and read up a lot of dog behavior. It wasn’t easy, but as I gained knowledge and controlled my own energy, things got better and better. In the process, I not only built a very special bond with Sephy, but I also changed certain things about myself that make me happier and more confident.
      http://shibashake.com/dog/finding-a-dog-trainer
      http://shibashake.com/dog/zen-dog-training-tips

  17. Amanda Gail Garrard says

    December 14, 2014 at 12:31 pm

    hello enjoyed your article on huskies /i have a9 month old myself he spitz is a very loving n obedient dog. But one thing about having huskies we have to remember is it comes down to love / patience/ kindness n usually they willobey. These brreds are very aware /but like us they cant solve all the problems that arise n our lives therefore they need direction /so lets dont confuse obedience with misdirection.I love my dog ubconditionally .n never would hurt or scold him to make him upset;hes great!!So get o the ball read this website here for help but the true help still is what we inbreed to our pets /n the job is ours n ours alone!!!Congradulation all you Huskie owners n lovers!!They’re one heck of a breed!!!Champion dog -line terrific#!DOGfor a beautiful pet!!!ENJOYamanda garrard north carolina

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  18. Jason says

    September 6, 2014 at 7:40 pm

    Hi Shibashake, are the pictures that you use in your posts your own personal photographs? I believe that someone is using one of the photographs with the man and husky to try to scam people with offers of free huskies. The particular image(https://lh6.googleusercontent.com/-y-eKHSxS5zY/U_G2CdjxrhI/AAAAAAAAABY/ORqkV7Ke5t0/w391-h390-no/6.jpg
    ) is being used as a Google+ profile image.

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    • shibashake says

      September 6, 2014 at 10:42 pm

      Thank you very much for the heads up.

  19. Terry Golson says

    July 19, 2014 at 9:24 am

    Very nicely put, especially the bit about how the real question is, “do I love my dogs?” I don’t believe in unconditional love, but do I know the conditions that my animals put on love? No. So, love with a full heart, and ask yourself not if your dogs love you, but do you unconditionally love your dogs?

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    • shibashake says

      July 22, 2014 at 2:45 pm

      Hi Terry, Really enjoyed your site. Love the chicken cam, as well as the pictures and stories of all your animal companions. Hugs to them all! 😀

    • karren says

      February 2, 2016 at 5:27 pm

      I don’t know if our dogs truly love us, but…my in-laws had a Maltese. She was sweet and got plenty of attention from all of us. My MIL and BIL(his dog really) were her main caretakers, fed and walked her and such. My FIL would play with her occasionally and pet her in his favorite recliner. When my FIL passed away she would lie in that recliner and make little crying sounds and look so lost for hours. It was heart wrenching, I mean we all missed him terribly. There were always plenty of family there to give her attention. We would sit in that recliner, pet her and it just would not perk her up like when he did it, she just wasn’t having it, she just wanted to be left alone in that chair. She missed HIM, not the petting or attention that she could get anywhere else, I think that’s love.

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