What is the Nothing in Life Is Free program?
NILIF is a simple and effective way to control our dog’s behavior, by controlling his most desired resources.
To implement NILIF, all we have to do is ask our dog to do something for us first, before giving him something in return. For example,
- If our dog wants to go out to the backyard, ask him for a Sit first, before opening the door.
- If our dog is looking for affection, ask him to Go Bed first, before scratching him on his favorite spots.
- If it is our dog’s meal time, then ask him for a Down-Stay before starting to prepare his food.
The Nothing in Life Is Free program is not a command or a single technique, rather it is a general strategy for dog behavior control.
With NILIF, we teach our dog that the best way to get what he wants, is to first do what we want.
![Shiba Inu Sephy getting a tummy scratch on his bed. Nothing in Life Is Free Dog Training](https://cdn.shibashake.com/dog/wp-content/uploads/2012/02/IMG_5869-520x390.jpg)
Why Apply the Nothing in Life Is Free Program
![Group dog training - down position With NILIF we teach our dog to work for the things that he wants most.](https://cdn.shibashake.com/dog/wp-content/uploads/2012/01/IMG_5726-280x210.jpg)
With NILIF we teach our dog –
- To work for the things that he wants most.
- That people are the source of food, toys, play, and many other good things.
- That he gets the most resources by working together with us, staying calm, and following house rules.
This helps to build a strong bond with our dog that is based on cooperation, positive outcomes, and a good work ethic. It is an effective and non-confrontational way to achieve control.
Dogs have needs of their own. They are not mindless satellites that revolve around us, and that only live to serve us. With NILIF, we channel a dog’s energy into positive activities, and reward him well for his good works.
![Dogs and human enjoying a wonderful moment. NILIF helps to build a strong bond with our dog that is based on cooperation, positive outcomes, and a good work ethic.](https://cdn.shibashake.com/dog/wp-content/uploads/2012/04/IMG_5922b-520x390.jpg)
How to Apply the Nothing in Life Is Free Program
While applying NILIF on my dogs, I learned that it is very important to be consistent, firm, and fair.
1. Consistency
I set up a consistent set of rules, a consistent routine, and a consistent way of communication. My dogs understand what things they get rewarded for, and there is always ample opportunity for them to work for their supper.
Clear communication is also very important, so I identify good behaviors with a yes-mark (Yes or Good) and bad behaviors with a no-mark (Ack-ack). Similarly, they have a good dog name and a bad dog name.
Finally, dogs do not come with a ready-made human rulebook in their heads. For health and safety, we must teach a dog our very human rules. These rules will likely make very little sense to him, which is why we want to tie them to the things that he values most.
![Social grooming! Dogs do not come with a ready-made human rule-book in their heads.](https://cdn.shibashake.com/dog/wp-content/uploads/2012/04/IMG_5900-520x390.jpg)
2. Firmness
If my dog fails to perform a command or only puts in a half-hearted effort, then I do not reward him for his lackluster performance; no matter how cute he looks.
For example, my Shiba Inu will sometimes only perform a half-down when I give him the command. When he does this, I just give him a look and wait for him to do it properly. When he sees that he will not get rewarded unless he does a good job, he puts in the extra effort.
He works even harder when I do group obedience sessions and he sees that my Siberian Huskies are being rewarded well for their good performance.
![Group dog obedience training Shiba works even harder when I do group obedience sessions and he sees that my Siberian Huskies are being rewarded well for their good performance.](https://cdn.shibashake.com/dog/wp-content/uploads/2012/04/IMG_5919-520x390.jpg)
3. Fairness
All my dogs follow the same rules and get similar rewards. Their rewards are not always identical because they each have different temperaments, and are motivated by different things.
For example, both my Siberian Huskies are very motivated by food, especially Shania. My Shiba Inu is less motivated by food and more motivated by freedom, new objects and experiences, as well as chasing games.
Husky Lara likes to chase, jump, and weave between a person’s legs. Husky Shania loves meeting people, getting tummy rubs, and licking faces. A big part of being successful with NILIF involves understanding our dogs, and identifying what motivates them most.
![Small Sibe resting head on Big Sibe A big part of being successful with NILIF involves understanding our dogs, and identifying what motivates them most.](https://cdn.shibashake.com/dog/wp-content/uploads/2012/04/IMG_5914-520x390.jpg)
I always try to set my dog up for success. In particular, I give him tasks where he has a good chance of completing. For example, I start by teaching him simple commands such as Look and Sit. I wait until he has mastered more basic commands before moving on to Fetch, Come, or Go Bed which are more complex commands, that include a sequence of actions. The more successful he is, the more confident he will become, and the more quickly he learns that working with me is a very rewarding activity.
Instead of throwing my dog into a situation that I know he cannot handle, I start small and we take small steps together. He works for each step, and gets rewarded for it with food, play, affection, and more.
I make sure to only reward good behaviors, and not give him anything for bad behaviors, including my attention and affection. Instead, when he does something undesirable, he may lose a reward or privilege.
In this way, a dog learns to repeat good behaviors because he gets what he desires most. Similarly, he stops bad behaviors because it gets him nothing, or he loses something that he desires. With NILIF dog training, we build a relationship that is based on trust and respect, rather than one that is based on confrontation and fear.
![Two Siberian Huskies I make sure to only reward good behaviors, and not to give my dogs anything for bad behaviors.](https://cdn.shibashake.com/dog/wp-content/uploads/2012/02/IMG_5820-520x390.jpg)
The Spirit of NILIF
![Three dogs hanging out together in the kitchen. My ultimate goal is to provide my dogs with as good a quality of life as I can.](https://cdn.shibashake.com/dog/wp-content/uploads/2012/04/IMG_5879-280x210.jpg)
Some people interpret the nothing in NILIF in the most extreme way. In particular, they give a dog access to some resource if and only if he completes a requested task. At other times, the dog is kept in a kennel or crate, so that he does not have his freedom, which in itself is a desired resource.
Confinement also prevents the dog from getting other desired resources on his own, including sticks to play with, or objects to chew on. In short, the only way he gets any and all resources is through us.
This may be one of those instances where we are trying so carefully to follow the letter of the law, that we end up defeating the spirit of the law.
The spirit of NILIF, as it is widely used today, is to build a strong bond with our dog that is based on trust and respect rather than on confrontation and physical force. We would hardly be doing this by keeping our dog locked up all day, with short bursts of freedom to hero-worship us. Such a strategy focuses purely on the human, and leaves nothing for the dog.
I train my dogs and use NILIF, not to boast about my dog training prowess, or to follow random rules for no reason. My ultimate goal is to provide my dogs with a good quality of life. Constantly depriving them of freedom and activity would hardly achieve this goal. Common sense dictates that this extreme interpretation of NILIF is not only untenable, but also unproductive.
![Yet another Shiba Inu play-bow The Spirit of NILIF](https://cdn.shibashake.com/dog/wp-content/uploads/2012/04/IMG_5871-520x390.jpg)
When I implement NILIF, I reward my dogs for good behavior. It does not matter whether I asked for a behavior or not; if they behave well, they get rewarded. They are still working for their resources by behaving well, therefore they are not getting resources for free. However, I see absolutely no need to explicitly control every single action by my dog.
If my dog follows house rules, then he gets to roam freely in the house, play, rest, drink water, chew on toys, or whatever else. If he breaks an important house rule, then he may lose a reward, or very temporarily lose the privilege of his freedom.
Sometimes, I also reward my dogs with food and affection when they are resting calmly together. They get rewarded for sitting while greeting people. They get rewarded for staying calm while out on walks, and much more.
![Huskies resting together on a warm afternoon Sometimes, I also reward my dogs when they are resting calmly together.](https://cdn.shibashake.com/dog/wp-content/uploads/2012/04/IMG_5911-520x390.jpg)
Isn’t the ultimate goal to get our dog to behave well on his own? Isn’t that much better than dictating his every move – like a robot controlled dog? It is extremely unhealthy to set ourselves up as the sole focus of our dog’s world, and take away all of his freedom and options. It is unhealthy for us, and unhealthy for our dog.
I like giving my dog options and helping him fulfill his needs. In my book, that is what trust and respect mean. That is also what love means.
We can nitpick on terms until the cows come home, and twist words to win online debates. At the end of the day though, what matters is not the terms used but what we do, and how we strive to give our dogs what they deserve – a good life that is safe and filled with happiness.
![Sleeping Shiba Inu and laughing Siberian Husky What matters is not the terms used but what we do, and how we strive to give our dogs what they deserve - a good life that is safe and filled with happiness.](https://cdn.shibashake.com/dog/wp-content/uploads/2012/04/IMG_5934-520x390.jpg)
As a professional trainer and founder of a GSD rescue group, I enjoyed your explanation of NILIF. I especially liked your description of The Spirit of NILIF, as sometimes NILIF has been interpreted as an end in itself, or to exert dominance, when as you mention it is a technique to develop a bond between the dog and owner. Thank you.
Hi
We have had a very upsetting incident with our Shiba today. He is one. He is very protective over certain things. On a couple nights of occasions he’s been aggressive to us when we try to take something off him that he’s picked up in the garden. This time he full on aggressively attacked my husband when he had upended his food by accident and my husband tried to clean it up. He also went for me when I tried to pull him back. The behaviour seems to be escalating and I don’t know what to do…
Food and more generally resource guarding is a common issue with many dogs. My Shiba also exhibited some of those tendencies. Given what you describe I would try to find a good trainer who has a lot of experience with both Shibas and resource guarding issues. I have a couple of articles on my experience with resource guarding with my Shiba BUT they are more for prevention.
“Mine!”, Says the Shiba Inu
More on food aggression.
Hi, I am so glad to have found your blog as I just recently became a Shiba owner. Though I had dogs before but Shiba is very different. She is currently 8 weeks old and only home 3 days, but us barely eating or not very interested in food, which makes it really difficult for me to train her with incentive. I am also concerned she’s not eating enough and have tried canned tuna and sardines but mildly interested only. Hope to get some advise from you. Thanks!
Hi,
Thank you for this article it is very informative. Was wondering if you have any further advice for us. We have a 13 week old golden retriever puppy called Cora. She is a good girl most of the time, however sometimes she wrinkles her nose up at us when we tell her off the couch. I have started to teach her the off command and when I show her a treat she comes off for it. However if I try to mive her off or pull her collar then she makes this face and shows her teeth a bit. I am worried this is aggressive and want to resolve this before she gets bigger. At the moment she is ot allowed on the couch at all and wears a lead. If she won’t come off on command for a treat i will use the lead to get her to come down. Do you have any tips? Any advice would be appreciated
Many thanks
Louise
We have recently adopted a 10 month old male border collie-lab mix. He is high energy and, initially, seemed like a good match for our female border collie-catahoula. They love to run together in the yard and wrestle but occasionally things escalate and our female ends up with bite marks on her muzzle. I’m not sure how to handle this as we are not always present to “referee” their play. Any suggestions would be greatly appreciated as we cannot allow this to continue and the alternative of rehoming him is also unacceptable to us. I really enjoy reading your posts and your common sense approaches to modify behavior. Thank you for sharing your knowledge/experience.
Please could you help me. I have a 6 year old American bulldog I got him in south carolina at 5 weeks..he is really sweet .loves people was very well socialized with other dogs.I own a horse farm he has always been loose cause he loves everybody.3 years ago he got attacked by another dog and since then he has been unpredictable and dangerous with dogs he doesn’t know..I am very worried and at a lose as to what to do now..I always keep him on a leash if we go anywhere and he has an e coller he respects.but I can not always rely on a perfect world where people don’t suddenly show up her with a stranqe dog .I love him but he just attacked my neighbor s dog when he came over..I am now fencing that whole side of my property.but I miss the life we had when I could take him everywhere with me and it didn’t matter what dogs came to the barn….
Can you help ?
I have a just turned 1 year old Akita male I was told by the 14 year old brat that owned him that he was friendly to other dogs have since found out that’s a lie now he’s acting dominant and aggressive towards my mothers dog who we live with I want them to get along when we took them together out for a walk my male dog tried to mount my mothers male dog so neither of them liked that but him trying to mount every one in sight has stopped on its own my only problem is the aggression I CAN’T AFFORD a dog TRAINER i did buy a pet corrector spray and that has helped a little can you give me any advice please
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Waking up barking in crate at 5:30 am all of sudden
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